If you feel you’re making an impression of overdoing things or feeling clingy, then please stop. It you feel you’re going overboard to the person’s life, then please stop. If you feel you make him/her uncomfortable, then please stop.Stop doesn’t mean you want to let go. Stop means you need to set boundaries and make that person feel you don’t overstep on his/her privacy. Stop is keeping you away from being obsessed and have a good discernment. Stop is to not make that person feel he/she is okay with his/her comfort zone.
Yes we can give and do so much when we’re in love or cared a lot to a person. However, we should also make sure we’re not making the person feel unease and agitated. It’s okay to care, to be jealous, to wonder, and to be curious. But we should also think of ourselves and be mindful of our own lives. Let’s not make it a habit of being crazy and make our world just revolve around a specific person’s life.
We have our own lives. We have our own circle. So if you think you’re overstepping, take a step back, ponder, lay low, and hold back.
