Accept and Move On...

I really hate it when people say that the best escape from problems is by drinking a bottle or a glass of beer(wine, brandy ,tequila, etc.), because it makes you numb and it creates a world that you want, where you don't feel and remember anything from the real world where you want to escape from.

Some people are reluctant or even totally have a strong defiance from doing it, nobody can blame them, but once you've come to be in a situation where you really want to escape and be absolutely gone from reality, i bet you will retract from your aloofness of doing it.

It's hard to explain, but getting drunk makes you stronger! Stronger to fight and  stand from your weaknesses, makes it easily for you to accept your faults, and makes you realize that what had happened cannot be returned and cannot be rewrite to the way you want it to be, that the right and best thing to do is to have a total acceptance, and a clear and calm heart and mind for you to prepare to the journey to the path of moving on...

Assumptions...

It's hard to tell whether you know it or not, it's hard to assume whether they feel it or not, thus, it is also hard to tell whether you will be disappointed or not, get hurt or not, and be stupid or not. Is it really hard?, or you are just the one who's making it hard?

People easily trust, easily give in, and easily fall, and eventually easily get fooled! Maybe its time to be mature, its time to learn, and its time to be wise. Maybe some people are right when they say that you must listen to your brain and not with your heart, cause life can be deceiving, where we need to be cautious, ready, and open-minded with every trials, heartaches, and failures that may come across us.

Just be yourself, but don't forget that you have to be a critical, an observant, and most importantly, the hero of yourself. A hero to save you from wrong decisions, from premature presumptions, and from uncontrollable feeling of insane sense of admiration...

I Could Not Ask For More

Sometimes things don't go the way we want then to happen, well, that's the truth about life, that we can't have all the joys in this world, but what is important to know and learn about this, is that maybe, we can't have the best things, so in order to fill the lost or the joys that we weren't able to celebrate, we must make the best out of what we have and fully make it memorable and exciting.

There is this maxim that goes: "big things come in small packages", we always relate it to people, but it can also be best represent the blessings that we receive, where what we see by the eye may not be what it really is, that it could mean more than what we expected it to be.

We always have this feeling of discontentment and a feeling of disappointment. A feeling of discontentment for the things that we have, and a feeling of disappointment for the things that we didn't have. But if we only look at, on a more broader scope and not only on a myopic view, trust me, you will be more thankful just for what you have by now.

We always see beggars and street children, who are like nomads in the desert, no shelter to sleep in on a cold rainy evening, no normal dress to protect them from shame of being naked, and no food to give them the energy that they need to continue on with their lives. So just by seeing them, we can already say to ourselves that we are lucky to have such than to have none, that we should be proud and embrace what we have and relish all the goodness that we receive in our everyday living...

Reality Or Fantasy?

When will be the time that we should wake up from a dream?

When we dream, we forget about everything. We only feel and see the happiness and gratefulness that we want, we become bias, where we want to be in control of everything that is happening around us, where we only want to see perfection.

But what if, what happens is the other way around? Where what we see doesn't pleases us, where what we see is just pure imperfection and disappointment, where we become strangers of our own, where we should be the one who must fit in the situation. Is it not just right to pinch ourselves and return to reality?

Pinch yourself! Pinch to stop the long suffering that you feel. Pinch to save what you still have. Pinch to stop the time and effort that is being wasted. And pinch to realize that you still have a real world!

A real world where there are others who openly and wholeheartedly cares for us. Where someone and something better or even best awaits us. Where we could find the real world where we really belong. A real world without discrimination, without unrealistic expectation, without unfair condition, and a real world without pretension or dignity diminution...

WHEN?

     When will you know if its really what you expect it is?, Or funny may it seems but when will you able to say to yourself that this is it? Could it be the ease of what you feel when your close to it?, Or could it be the compatibility that you see when your near to it?


     We do come to a point where we need to choose between two way paths, one say's go, and the other say's let go, both comes with corresponding pros and cons. What if I choose to go?, will i be not left alone in the journey all along?, will i see a smile after the long travel i'll never know?. But what if i choose to let go?, will i be more mature and learn to give up when the timer reach zero?, will i be a coward or courageous to accept the result which i still don't know?

     Perhaps the best things to remember in finding the answer are, first, Is it worthy to spend my entire life and time? Am I being true to myself or just creating a mind-boggling false expectation? And lastly, will it make me:

Who as a person.
Where as future state of destination.
How as a perfect solution to the never ending question.
And Why as a cause in guiding to the optimum fulfillment and self-satisfaction...

Too Much Whining!

Question: why do people always whines about almost everything? What would be the reason behind this? Or is there really a logical explanation surrounding it?

     In my 23 years of existence, I have never seen a person as too whiny as this freak! Well, forget about the name or the personality of this creature as it is not worthy to give some specifics about this homo sapien. I understand that behind every grievances encompasses or are brought about by serious or tragic events, but how would you categorize too much whining over a simple, yet not be considered to be clamoring about?

Some people tend to look at things as complicated as they should not be, or are they just pretending to be such, just to get away with what they think of as a catastrophic reality. We want to live for contentment, we want to live for satisfaction, and by saying so, we should also live with the the pros and cons of this action.

We should realize that we don't live just for ourselves, that it takes a lot of patience, hard work, and self-giving in order to take place the outcome that we wanted to achieve. That everything that we want to have or where we want to be, should possess these three elements for it to be sturdy and for us to say that, "hey i work hard for it and I'm so very very proud of it!"