PEOPLE CHANGE

As one of my colleague once said: "People Change". Yes its true, change is really inevitable in a person, but the thing there is, is it a change for better or a change for worst?

Sometimes people don't realize that they become the person whom others don't want them to be. Well, who are we to blame them?, we might be one of the causes why they become who they are now. As there are different factors that affects one's personality and gradually changes that person's life. One will be the environment where the person lives, another will be the surroundings where the person works, and lastly, the peers whom the person fraternize with.

It might be wrong and selfish to say but, we want to bring them back the way they were before. Before, where you are happy going out with them. Before, where you are full of enthusiasm with your conversations. Before, where all you think is to relax, enjoy, and laugh with them.

But, what can we do to see and to hear the person that we have been longing for?, where we don't have the courage to tell to the person that they have changed and that we are saddened of what had happen with your relationship with each other?

Maybe, the right thing to do is to accept the fact that the person has become who he/she is now. And sad to say, we must adhere to the cliche: "friends come and go"...

Too Nice???

Do we always have to please everybody?, rather do we always have to be nice to other people even if it make us look like a fool? I personally have nothing against being nice to people, but when it comes to a point of abusing that kindness within you, I would definitely object to the notion of too considerate.

People have different ways of showing how dominant they are. Dominant to a point where someone is being belittled by that dominance of that person. And if that instance happen, will let yourself be down at that moment?, some my agree(those who are too nice, but I don't know if there are such people), but most probably won't.

Why would spoil that person from doing that to you again and again?(yes it's becoming to be a routine). If you allow such act to be done to you, you are not helping both side to change for the better. You are making that person feel comfortable of what he/she is doing, where it comes to a point that it will sinks to that person's mind that it is okay to be like that and to do that to you. And on your part, it will make you less of a person and it might even lower your self-esteem.

Let just say that, We are human created to love and respect and we are equal in GOD'S eyes. So to speak, we must love and respect others, and treat them the right way, which is "EQUALNESS"...

I Am Me!!!

I am who I am, an old cliche but still being used. Whenever people say that I should change my personality, the way I talk, the way I think, and the way I communicate and interact with people, I couldn't stop thinking, "Is there really something wrong with me?". It is true and I admit it that sometimes I can sense that what I'm doing or my actions are beyond my prerogative, but, this is who I am, and as far I as my whole personality is concern, I'm still in the boundary of good, nice, and humorous.


You can judge me by what you see, by what you hear, by what you feel. I am what you see, what you hear, what you feel. And if you can't accept me for what you see from me, from what you hear from me, from what you feel from me, then I don't think you should still mingle and socialize with me. You Should Accept me!!!

I don't want to be arrogant for bragging that I love being myself, I know that I have flaws, and what do you think I'm doing about this?, nothing?. I accept criticisms and make use of them to improve and enhance more my personality and of as a human being.

I can't be the one that you want me to be. I have my own identity, I have my own decisions, and I have my own einstein in me. Love me for being ME. Respect me for being ME. And Accept me for being ME...

"SONO SOLO"

Never have I felt this loneliness inside me. I don't know what is the reason. Is it because of being too overcrowded with so much problem and no one is there to give you the exact help that you needed?, or could it be because I had enough of celebrating my singleness?


I don't know what to think or what to do. Am I not satisfied with the way my life is going? Do I need to change my view of life because time is running out and things that should be done must be done, or else everything will be affected and the result may not be that too nice to appreciate or even to accept.


But come to think of it, considering the people that surrounds me. Am I really alone on this journey? Am I not lucky enough to have them beside me. They may not be with me every time to make me comfortable or to make me feel that hey you're not alone, but at least in their own simple way they make me special in every social events that we are together.


Life is not perfect as they say. That's life, you are only allowed to live once, and in that span of time, you must learn to appreciate even just the most simplest thing in this world, and must learn to accept your fate , cause you can't enjoy life to the fullest if your bound thinking the if's and what if's of life. Be happy with who you are right now, with whom  you are at this moment, and of what you are today...