Do we always have to please everybody?, rather do we always have to be nice to other people even if it make us look like a fool? I personally have nothing against being nice to people, but when it comes to a point of abusing that kindness within you, I would definitely object to the notion of too considerate.
People have different ways of showing how dominant they are. Dominant to a point where someone is being belittled by that dominance of that person. And if that instance happen, will let yourself be down at that moment?, some my agree(those who are too nice, but I don't know if there are such people), but most probably won't.
Why would spoil that person from doing that to you again and again?(yes it's becoming to be a routine). If you allow such act to be done to you, you are not helping both side to change for the better. You are making that person feel comfortable of what he/she is doing, where it comes to a point that it will sinks to that person's mind that it is okay to be like that and to do that to you. And on your part, it will make you less of a person and it might even lower your self-esteem.
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