As one of my colleague once said: "People Change". Yes its true, change is really inevitable in a person, but the thing there is, is it a change for better or a change for worst?
Sometimes people don't realize that they become the person whom others don't want them to be. Well, who are we to blame them?, we might be one of the causes why they become who they are now. As there are different factors that affects one's personality and gradually changes that person's life. One will be the environment where the person lives, another will be the surroundings where the person works, and lastly, the peers whom the person fraternize with.
It might be wrong and selfish to say but, we want to bring them back the way they were before. Before, where you are happy going out with them. Before, where you are full of enthusiasm with your conversations. Before, where all you think is to relax, enjoy, and laugh with them.
But, what can we do to see and to hear the person that we have been longing for?, where we don't have the courage to tell to the person that they have changed and that we are saddened of what had happen with your relationship with each other?
Maybe, the right thing to do is to accept the fact that the person has become who he/she is now. And sad to say, we must adhere to the cliche: "friends come and go"...
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