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Wednesday, January 18, 2023

Can’t we really unloved someone?

They say we can’t unloved someone. But the truth is we can and it’s not your own personal choice. It’s not something that we have control over or something that we can manage or manipulate. It’s actually the process that makes us unloved a person.


If someone treats you unimportant, uninvited, or simply just another option; will you still feel you’re with the right person? If someone no longer communicates with you or ignores you; do you still get the eagerness or ecstatic feeling to continuously start a fun or start a good conversation about just any topic with him/her? If a person no longer have the time to be with you or denies to spend just a spare moment with you; doesn’t it ever makes you wonder if you’re still making most of your precious time and not wasting it?


Come to think of it. Yes we may have our own agenda, our own lives, and our own circle. If an individual has true intentions or have true feelings for you, is it too much to ask for a little effort and time to be with you? A small gesture is already appreciated for you not to think twice, but none is given.


Being in love and feeling loved is one of the happiest moment of our lives. Getting attached to a person may seemed inevitable. But stop making it the center of everything. Don’t let it stop you to become a beautiful butterfly. Don’t let it ruin your wings to fly and grow. And most importantly, don’t let it stop you on finding the true happiness that you deserve and the life that you’ve been wanting to immerse.