There are instances in our lives that being alone and not be bothered makes us feel calm and contented. But in reality, we’re just taking a break and moment of silence. A break from traumatic experience and wrongful decisions from sudden burst of emotions. A moment of silence from the noises of pressure and despair of not finding the right one for us.
But what if we meet someone unexpectedly? A person who we don’t know but gives a little spark. A spark that is enough to light a match and gives light that will wake our sleeping fantasy. Will you just ignore it since it might just be another false alarm which only leads to another delusion? Or will you give it a chance and grab it in hoping that it’s the right window or door that we’ve been waiting to open?
No one knows what the future holds. Thus, making a small opening to our heart and letting someone get inside may not be a big of a trouble. However, don’t let it be the same feeling that succumbed you to desperation and heartbreak. Just give a small chance but not expecting anything in return. Making it simple where if it works, then it works. If it doesn’t, then it doesn’t. Don’t make it complicated and just go with the flow but not yet investing emotions and not getting things deeper in a swift. Taking things slow and letting itself unravel along the way.
There’s no such thing as waiting for the right moment for us to open our hearts again to others. Instead, we must be ready to seize the opportunity that is presented to us when we see it’s the perfect timing and it’s the right decision for us to venture again. We just don’t wait and not do anything. We need to prepare ourselves and be ready that it could be the right time for us to feel important. The right time for us to be accepted and valued. The right time for us to fall in love again.
