For two people who are enjoying each other's company both friendly and romantically, we always associate it to situationship. A word that describes a mutual understanding but with no label. But do we really need to have label to be happy and contented? Is label really the basis to be called in a relationship?
We hear people say that if there's one thing that will make them truly happy is to finally get that big yes or to formally be introduced as a couple. Accept it or not, but this is the norm of the society or the world we live in. Having no label, means you're both just wasting each other's time since it may seemed that you're a couple but without the assurance of being a couple at the end. But what if we deter to adhering to such norms and think the way we want. No pressure, no judgements, and no negativity.
In this era where love and relationships easily come and go, do we really still need to put a label every time we fall in love? If you'll ask me, I don't think so. I don't think it's necessary. If that no label relationship makes you happy, then go ahead and cherish every moment. It's just a matter of how you perceive each other's words and actions. If you don't see anything wrong, then why stop.
I guess label is just word. A word that puts pressure and a stereotype to two people who are just enjoying life with no worries and just being ecstatic. With label or not, it doesn't matter. What matter is both you are in pure bliss and no stigma of what people has to say.
Not every feeling has to have a label. Not every relationship has to be named. Some emotions aren't meant to be understood. They're just meant to be felt. With or without label...
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