Is right sometimes or always wrong?

Sometimes it's better to be with what you know is right than to be with what you know is happy but wrong.

Let's face the fact that the world is full of odds. We are not allowed to choose what we want, rather we must only direct ourselves of what is needed. Silly as it may sound, but that's the way the world goes around. It only ratifies the true meaning of the word unselfishness, where to make others happy is to make them feel comfortable. To let them have the peacefulness that they want to feel. To let them have what they really wants. And to let them be to what they know is best.

Let's face it, we cannot have the perfect life that we premeditated and prognosticated. We either choose in between or be left nowhere. Just one of the realities of life...

What we really want?

Sometimes I wonder if I really want to be like this or to be like that. Sometimes I wonder whether am I beginning to be foolish or just too kind. Sometimes I wonder if am I still me or am I already pretending to be another person.

I often come to a situation of wanting to have something, wanting to be somewhere, and wanting to have someone. And for these cases, I ended up being too immature, being too possessive, and being not too clever or simply being too dumb in my decisions and actions.

We live in the world of possibilities. Possibilities where we could buy, we could own, and we could have someone that we want. But for most instances, we forget to think before we act, we forget to sleep before we dream, we forget to think about ourselves first before others, and we forget to see that what we are doing is already insanity.

Maybe it's human nature. Maybe it's who we really are. Maybe it's just a manifestation of our desperation and  too impossible imagination of what we want.

We may not be at our right selves sometimes, but we are happy for it, though the happiness is just too abrupt like a simple blink of an eye. So before we lose track of who we really are and before we lose the wisdom that is lying within us; We must be a sentinel of the results of the things that we want, We must be a good Samaritan to thy selves, and We must be awake and alert of the what is really going on...

Am I Ready?

Am I ready to come back to the place I have been longing for?
Am I ready to return to the place of my comfort?
Am I ready to go back where I used to be?
Am I ready?

Simple you may say, but the truth is, it's not that easy.

Think first of the pros and cons of the decisions you make.
Consider the opportunity cost a specific action may lead to.
Contemplate on the end results of it for both short term and long term events.

But at the end of the day, still, one and only thing really matters, "Will you forever be happy and 100% be fully contented?"

I Just Wished...

Sometimes I wished I was silent.
Silent to not make any mistakes.
Silent to not get overwhelmed and not spoil the placidity of the moment.

Sometimes I wished I didn't had that so much humor.
Humor to not be marked as boisterous.
Humor to not create the wrong impression that I'm over reacting.

But I always wished that I am both all the time.

All the time to express who I really am.
All the time to establish the perfect momentum.
All the time to not ruin expectations and assumptions.
All the time to be so much me and be very happy.

I just wished...

Introducing the new "ME"

Everyday in our life, we see different kinds of people, different norms on places that we see and found, different cultures where we are bound to adhere with.

We are used to the maxim: "When In Rome, Do What The Romans Do". Learn to adjust to your new abode and accept and do their practices and culture, or simply be like them. But, do you know that there is more to that saying than the usual thinking?

When we adjust, we just don't simply say or act what they do, we don't just fair ourselves to them, if we can, we supersede them! We excel! We outwit them!!!

Just because you're a neophyte doesn't mean that you'll be an outcast and be outplayed by them. You change yourself! Changing for the better or even changing for the best!

Be strong and be idealistic. You act what they will plan in the future. You say what will they think in the near time. You initiate first the idea what all will follow sooner or later.

You Speak! You Act! You Lead!!!

Where Am I?

I don't know why am I here?, what is my purpose of living in this place?, could it be because out of my curiosity?, or could it be because of me being to ambitious?

I still don't know why. But maybe, one day, it will just pop out of my mind and then I will understand.

Life is just a matter of what we choose. We learn to accept the way things are going as this is the risk that we took to begin with. What is happening are the pros and cons of our decision.

We might look back someday in two ways, the first is remorse, and the other one is fulfillment.

We can't really prognosticate what lies ahead. What is beneath the gloomy cloud and what is in line after the promising rainbow. What we only have is hope. Hope to be happy, Hope to be successful, and Hope that we did the right decision...

A Simple: "I Care..."

We always hear the words: take care, how are you?, i miss you; all of which expresses your endearment, your caress, or simply your tender loving care for someone. Its just a matter of choice of how you say it, how you show it, how you make it. The only thing that matter is that you made an effort to express it.

Its not important for a person on how you deliver the thought that you really care. It matters not if it is too early or so late. It also does not make it less if you just say it, rather than show it. The important thing is that you made the person felt that you really care.

A minute or just a few seconds of call; A short poem email or just a simple instant message buzz, A long composed or just a short or even just one word of text message is enough for a person to feel that he/she is important.

Just say, I'm thinking of you, I'm really missing you, or just a simple: "I Care..."

I wished I was never that brave!

I wished that I did not have the courage to express what I felt about that person, cause it only creates a feeling of aloofness. I wished I did not have the confidence to directly show what I hid from within, cause it only made the loud voices go silent. I wished I was never that noble enough, to be tactless and just says what comes out of my mind, and not considering the weather of the situation. I wished I did not take the ride to the short and quick path and should have just taken the long and winding trail.

I wished I have just been the rather be than what I have been!

    I'd rather be silent than be boastful and lose something that you treasured most. I'd rather stay contained than be obsessive to keep that someone close. I'd rather keep the placidity of the situation than be aggressive and mess the whole simplicity and greatness of the situation.

    And again, the cliche that always and will always linger on: "We Accept, We Learn, And We Move On..."

L-O-V-E

I could never think of other reason to make a person so much happy other than being in love. Love is beautiful, joyful, meaningful, and full of so much pleasure and is indeed wonderful. It even makes a person insane because of so much obsession and creates a heavenly feeling that there is nothing more that you could ask for.

Yes, its true that all of the aforementioned things are in no doubt so much perfect. No problems to mind and no distractions to get rid of. Just you and the other individual that completes you.

But what if love is full of sorrows,  disappointments, and remorse?

You experience the feeling of hopelessness which rooted from silent rejection. The formation of gloomy weather within you caused by being disdained.

It maybe a sure stab in the heart but it creates a strong shield to withstand all the struggles of life. It gives you a  powerful strength to defend you from your blind spots weaknesses. And illuminates the dark side of your life on your way to a brighter and promising tomorrow...

Too short???

Could it be possible that in just a short span of time, you can quickly say that you already like or love a person?, or even come to a point of you saying that you've found the right one that you want to be with for the rest of your life.

Some people will raise their eyebrows, especially those who are still stuck in the world of conservatism. In one part they are right, because making quick assumptions and abrupt decisions may lead to disappointments due to so much expectations.

But, would it be wrong, if you yourself knows that what you're doing is right. That it gave you the happiness, where no one had given to you. That it always creates a smile whenever you will hear something from this person. And that it made you even think what your future is going to be with this person by your side.

If you will ask me, I say, I care not for whatever other people thinks. I fear not for the stigmatism from other people of being easy to get. Much more I defy from the notion of: relationships formed in just a short period of time will end up in a short period of time as well.

It doesn't matter if a relationship was conceived in a short while, and it also matters not what others perceives and believes out of this.  If you know  that what you see, what you hear, and what you feel is true, I think that no one can stop you. And what could be wrong, if you feel so much happiness in perpetuity just by being with this person. As the saying goes: "You don't need to eat an entire cake just to know if it taste good"...